The Common Courtesy Basics:

Everyone knows the rules but I think sometimes we forget. I urge every mother to copy this and laminate it and give it to each one of your children -- boys and girls alike -- even if they are fully grown!

In case you can't read the copy above of the very, very old Tiffany & Co. newspaper ad:

There Are Times

To hold open a door,

To surrender your seat,

To thank someone, in writing,

To let bygones be gone,

To remember your parents,

To listen with care,

To surprise with a gift,

To mind your table manners,

To honor tradition,

To give voice to your heart.