Happy Birthday, Max:

Today, my great-nephew is ten years old. I wish I knew him better. All I have are photos and stories. I know he loves the water. He loves to surf. He loves to climb to the tops of trees. He is the center of my niece and my sister and brother-in-law's lives -- 24/7. He is autistic, and such a beautiful, beautiful boy.

Blessed are those who stop and listen to my chatter. You may not understand me; but I love when people talk to me, for I long for companionship, too. Blessed are those who take my hand and walk with me when the path is rough, for I easily stumble and grow weary. But thank you, too, for letting me walk alone when the path is smooth, for I must learn independence. Blessed are those who take the time to tell me about special happenings, for unless you make special effort to inform me, I remain ignorant. Blessed are those who wait for me. I may be slow, but I appreciate your patience. Blessed are those who are not ashamed to be seen in public with me, for I did not choose to be born thus. It could have been you as well. Blessed are those who do not pity me, for I don't want pity. All I want is understanding and respect for what I have learned as well. Blessed are those who notice my accomplishments, small as they may seem to you. I must work long and hard to learn many of the things you take for granted. Blessed are those who include me in their games, even though I may not understand the rules, I still like to be included in your activities. Blessed are those who think of me as a person who loves, and hurts, and feels joy and pain just like you do, for in that respect I am normal.

Experts estimate that Autism affects 1 in 110 children; 1 in 70 boys. Autism prevalence figures are growing. For more information on Autism and/or where you can make a donation, visit these sites: Autism Speaks or Surfers Healing - A Foundation for Autism.